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21 Seconds to a New You: Blaine Oelkers’ Method to Build Positive Habits

What if you could change your habits in as little as 21 seconds rather than 21 days? That’s one topic that TEDx Speaker, Blaine Oelkers, will share with us in this episode!New Habits in 21 SecondsHave you heard these 3 common myths about creating daily positive habits? Myth #1: It takes 21 days to form a habit. Myth #2: You have to make big changes to see results. Myth #3: Willpower is the key to creating good habits. The truth is, forming habits is a complex process that requires intention, consistency, and self-awareness. Join us as guest speaker Blaine Oelkers shares the truth about creating daily positive habits that will improve productivity and mindset. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn practical strategies for building sustainable habits that will transform your daily routine.In this episode, you will be able to:Delve into actionable strategies for self-improvement and see how to seamlessly integrate them into your routine.Realize the immense potential of positive thinking in shaping your life's trajectory and overcoming obstacles.Gain insights into building daily habits that encourage positivity and contribute to overall happiness.Master the art of prioritizing your goals and optimizing personal productivity for enhanced results.Tap into habit-forming techniques that ensure sustainable growth and change in all aspects of life.My special guest is Blaine OelkersMeet Blaine Oelkers, an accomplished coach and speaker who has dedicated his life to helping busy professionals establish daily habits that contribute to improved productivity and overall well-being. Blaine's TEDx talk on positivity and habit-building has made a lasting impact, inspiring many to seek out his guidance and expertise in creating meaningful change. His tried-and-true strategies for fostering positive habits have made him a trusted resource in the world of personal development, as countless individuals have benefitted from his wisdom and practical advice. Blaine's passion for empowering others is evident in his continuous efforts to share his wealth of knowledge and experience.Chapters00:02:55 - WYTAYBA - What You Think About You Bring About00:06:15 - Rewiring Your Brain for Happiness and Success00:09:01 - Mindset Shapes Perception00:11:50 - Secret to a Better Future00:13:08 - Mind Shower and Lens Cleaning00:16:16 - In the Moment Solutions00:20:13 - Pouring in the Positive00:22:29 - Removing Knots and Making Small Pivots00:25:00 - Small Hinges Swing Big Doors00:26:29 - Importance of Disconnecting00:27:15 - Memorable Moments with Loved Ones00:28:45 - 21-Second Habits00:29:58 Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

Breaking Down the Bravado: Why Authenticity and Vulnerability Matter in Relationship Building

If you're feeling frustrated and disconnected from your loved ones, despite your efforts to be a good father and partner, then you are not alone! Many men struggle with the pressure of providing and being the strong, stoic figure in their families, which can lead to hiding their true emotions and putting up a façade. However, this approach often leads to a lack of real connection and understanding with loved ones. Instead, embracing vulnerability and authenticity can create stronger bonds and deeper trust, allowing for better communication and a healthier family dynamic. It takes courage to be vulnerable, but the rewards of more fulfilling relationships are worth it.In this episode, you will be able to:Gain insights on the importance of harmonizing fatherhood, masculinity, and self-improvement.Recognize the crucial role of sincerity and vulnerability in fostering healthy family and partner dynamics.Unearth the potential of fatherhood as a catalyst for growth, lifelong learning, and unwavering effort.Investigate the power of resources like the Fallible Man Podcast and Conference in driving personal growth and fostering camaraderie.Grasp the influence of mindful choices and self-accountability in shaping your life as a father and companion.My special guest is Brent DowlenIntroducing Brent Dowlen, a passionate life coach and host of The Fallible Man podcast whose mission is to inspire men to become better fathers and partners. Rooted in his Christian upbringing, Brent's approach emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in nurturing healthy relationships. Through his work in youth ministry and various life experiences, he has learned how vital it is for men to balance their protective instincts with a sensitive and open approach to parenting and partnership. Listen as Brent shares his insights on becoming a well-rounded father and husband, emphasizing genuine connection and emotional growth.Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

JERRY’S SHORT: H.A.L.T. and Trigger Awareness for Effective Leadership

Discover the power of self-awareness and emotional intelligence as Jerry Dugan delves into the impact of triggers on effective leadership in "JERRY'S SHORT: H.A.L.T., and Trigger Awareness for Effective Leadership."In this episode, you will be able to:Identify your emotional triggersReflect on your current emotional state using the H.A.L.T. acronymManage your response to emotional triggersCreate and maintain trust and self-esteem in tough conversations.Chapters00:00:00 Tools For Self-management And Emotional Intelligence: H.A.L.T. And Knowing Your Triggers00:05:02 Unmasking Your Triggers: How to Maintain Dialogue and CollaborationGo to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

Unlocking the Lion Within, A Christian Men’s Guide to Finding Purpose

We dive into the world of Christian men with Chris Grainger, founder of The Lion Within Us, and discuss how you can unlock your inner lion to find your true identity and purpose.In this episode, you will be able to:The positive power of community and mentorship among Christian menWhat it means to “be obedient to the Holy Spirit”How applying the Five F’s framework to your life gives you a chance to evaluate how well you’re living within our outside of work-life harmony and purposeSee how small acts of kindness can have a big impact on othersChris Grainger, Founder of The Lion Within UsChris Grainger works professionally as a manager with an engineering and services background in Raleigh, North Carolina. His journey of creating The Lion Within Us has been fueled by his desire to help others and glorify God with his life. He shares feeling blessed to be in several leadership positions in a professional and spiritual capacity. First and foremost, Chris is a devoted husband to a loving wife, “a true Proverbs 31 Woman” and the strongest person he knows. Together, they lead a family of three beautiful girls and one amazing son. He also currently serves as a deacon at his church and is a Certified Financial Coach. Chapters00:03:28 From #GirlDad to Raising a Son: A Father's Journey and the Birth of The Lion Within Us Podcast00:06:34 Ask Me Anything: The Monthly Event That's Taking The Line Within Us Community By Storm00:09:22 Breaking the Taboo: How an Online Community is Redefining What it Means to be a Godly Man00:14:19 Why These Men Are Rescheduling Their Schedules for a Zoom Meeting - The Power of Iron Sharpening Iron00:21:11 From Confusion to Clarity: A Life-Changing Conversation on the Gospel00:24:40 How One Question from a Stranger Led to a Life-Changing Moment00:28:34 Finding God's Voice: Why Spending Time in Nature and Community is KeyGo to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

JERRY’S SHORT: Building Trust by Unleashing the Power of Your Personal Leadership Credo

In a world craving authenticity and genuine leadership, having a personal leadership credo can be your secret weapon to elevate your influence to new heights. Imagine possessing a magnetic force that attracts trust effortlessly, inspiring unwavering loyalty from those around you. It all starts with crafting a personal leadership credo—a guiding light that shapes your actions and builds unshakable trust. Are you ready to embark on a transformative journey that will revolutionize your leadership style and leave a lasting impact? Discover the unparalleled power of a personal leadership credo and witness the remarkable results it brings."In every realm of life, trust forms the cornerstone of successful relationships, whether personal or professional. It is the invisible thread that binds individuals together, fostering collaboration, loyalty, and growth. And in the realm of leadership, trust reigns supreme. As a leader, your ability to inspire confidence, loyalty, and commitment directly correlates with your effectiveness in guiding and empowering your team.Yet, building trust as a leader is no easy feat. It requires more than just words or gestures—it necessitates a profound commitment to authenticity, transparency, and consistency. However, there is a powerful tool at your disposal, often overlooked or underestimated: a personal leadership credo.A personal leadership credo serves as your compass, your unwavering guidepost, illuminating your values, principles, and beliefs. It encapsulates the essence of your leadership philosophy, acting as a lighthouse in stormy seas, offering clarity and direction to both yourself and those you lead. But its true magic lies in the remarkable trust it can build.In this dynamic and rapidly evolving world, where trust is often in short supply, having a personal leadership credo sets you apart. It creates a magnetic aura that draws people towards you, inspiring them to believe in your vision and follow you wholeheartedly. By embodying your values and consistently aligning your actions with your credo, you become a beacon of authenticity, forging deep connections and fostering unwavering trust.In the following exploration, we will delve into the transformative power of a personal leadership credo. We will unveil the intricate ways in which it builds trust, not only within your team but also in your professional relationships at large. Join us as we uncover the secrets of crafting an effective credo, understand the profound impact it can have on your leadership style, and unlock the immense potential it holds to revolutionize your leadership journey.Are you ready to embark on this transformative path? Prepare to witness the extraordinary results that await those who dare to embrace the power of a personal leadership credo and build trust that knows no bounds.Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

How Project Management Principles Can Improve Marriage Communication

Faced with a pandemic lockdown, Hilary Kinney, applied project management principles that improved marriage communication and helped defeat a sense of overwhelm.Project Management for Parents - Improve Marriage CommunicationHillary Kinney, author of Project Management for Parents, shares how project management principles can improve communication in marriage. She draws from her 17 years of experience as a project manager with a Fortune 500 company to offer practical tips for dividing household chores, managing tasks, and taking ownership of responsibilities. The conversation is filled with laughter and nuggets of wisdom that can be applied not only to marriage but also to leading a team at work. In this episode, you will be able to:It's important to have conversations with your spouse about who is doing different household tasksChanges in schedules and responsibilities should be discussed and reworkedDividing up tasks based on what makes sense for the family can bring relief and reduce overwhelmSmall changes, like taking on one task or offering to do grocery shopping, can make a big difference in relationshipsGo to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

Discover Your True Self through Storytelling with Bob Wheatley

Bob Wheatley's quest for a love story takes an unexpected twist when he realizes the truth about his role in a grander narrative. Brace yourself for a thought-provoking journey that will challenge your understanding of life's ultimate purpose. Are you ready to join Bob on his quest and discover your true self?In this episode, you will be able to:Examine the crucial elements of self-discovery and storytelling in forging your unique journey.Gain insights into the intriguing authorship of the Bible and its all-embracing story.Understand the significance of trusting God's plan and the impact of surrender on personal growth.Discern the desires that steer you toward a divine connection and eternal happiness.Master the art of engaging multiple senses for optimum information absorption.My special guest is Bob WheatleyIntroducing Bob Wheatley, a former pro athlete and radio co-host with a passion for storytelling and helping others on their self-discovery journey. Through his experiences in the minor leagues and strong Christian faith, Bob has developed a keen understanding of the power of stories in shaping our lives. As co-host of That Singles’ Show, he shares this knowledge and provides valuable insights to singles seeking growth.Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

JERRY’S SHORT: Stake Your Leadership T.E.N.T.

Are you a leader who wishes to stay competitive by improving employee engagement and stemming the turnover tide in your company? This is the episode for you!Insights You May Not Know About The Great Resignation You may have heard about the Great Resignation in 2021. Did you know that 2022 saw a bigger wave of workers leaving their jobs? An estimated 50.5 million people left their employers in 2022 compared to 47.3 million in 2021. CNBC called it the "Real Year of the Great Resignation".Why Are Employees Leaving?The big reasons given for lower engagement among employees and workers exiting companies included the following found in Gallup's research:Not feeling connected at work (mission, vision, other people)Not being able to work from home for positions that could work from homeNot feeling cared for at workNot seeing opportunities for growthNot being offered opportunities for growthCompanies are competing in stemming the turnover tide through compensation market adjustments, hybrid and remote work arrangements, creating career ladders, and improving wellness programs. These are must-dos for companies but may take time to implement.What Are Managers Feeling?In my work with people leaders, the following trends and frustrations arise when talking about employee retention and engagement:"I'm losing people faster than these initiatives can get implemented.""Compensation adjustments are important, but it never seems enough to make people happy.""What can I do to curb employee dissatisfaction that's low-cost and has a real impact?""People see right through last-minute efforts to appeal to employees before an employee engagement survey. I want to do something that is genuine.""There are only so many seats available for formal development programs. How do I provide growth opportunities for everyone?"This is what led me to form a leadership framework built on proven principles and practices that help people leaders create a sense of feeling genuinely cared for and opportunities for growth for their employees at low cost with high impact.What Does Staking Out a T.E.N.T. Do to Stop This Trend?We are diving into four key characteristics of leaders who have been able to expel employee dissatisfaction, help employees feel cared for, and provide growth opportunities that stem the turnover tide.Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

Conquering Mimetic Traps in Fatherhood with Jay Twining

Do you ever feel like you're drowning in societal pressures to be the perfect dad? Have you tried following outdated advice and still feel disconnected from your children? It's time to break free from the mimetic traps and discover the true transformative power of being a positive father figure. Join us in this episode and learn effective strategies to forge meaningful relationships with your children, overcome societal expectations, and become the engaged and attentive father you've always wanted to be.In this episode, you will be able to:Appreciate the transformative power of an inspiring father figure and how it enhances family dynamics.Tackle mimetic traps head-on and resist common misconceptions about what it means to be a father.Cultivate meaningful relationships with your children, fostering a lifelong bond.Embrace your identity as a father by transcending societal norms and expectations.Ensure you are an engaged and attentive presence in your children's lives, guiding them on their journey.My special guest is Jay TwiningIntroducing Jay Twining, a devoted father and husband who understands the importance of fatherhood in today's world. As the creator and host of the YouTube show Feel Good Fatherhood, Jay offers support, inspiration, and practical advice to fathers facing the challenges of parenthood. Drawing from his background in video game development and teaching, Jay highlights the crucial role fathers play in the lives of their children and families. By sharing his own journey of overcoming mimetic traps and societal pressures, Jay empowers fathers to become the best version of themselves for the sake of their loved ones.The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 - Introduction, 00:06:44 - The Importance of Fatherhood, 00:10:30 - Finding Purpose in Fatherhood, 00:13:11 - Impact of Fatherlessness, 00:16:49 - Mimetic Traps, 00:14:31 - The Importance of Fatherhood, 00:19:37 - Masculinity and De-escalation, 00:25:38 - Mimetic Traps, 00:28:56 - Fatherhood and Unconscious Questions, 00:29:47 - Understanding Mimetic Traps in Fatherhood, 00:31:13 - Teaching Attention to Detail, 00:34:21 - Breaking the Locker Room Talk Mimetic Trap, 00:35:19 - Embracing the Weird, 00:39:18 - Continue Being Awesome, Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show

Unlocking Purpose with Margaret Agard: Balancing Work and Life

A high-powered executive turns to God for guidance on her overwhelming to-do list, leading to a life-changing shift towards writing and retirement.In this episode, you will be able to:Discover the value of surrendering control to better manage tasks and concentrate on areas of importance.Find the key to harmonizing a successful career path with a purpose-driven life.Unearth the importance of a strong vision and flexibility when facing new and challenging situations.Realize the impact everyday gestures can generate and the influence they can have on others.Experience the rewards of entrusting your life to spiritual guidance for enhanced clarity and personal growth. List 3:My special guest is Margaret AgardMargaret Agard is a former executive in the high-tech industry who transitioned into writing books with a focus on helping people find a balance between their careers and personal purpose. Having managed sales and dealer channels, Margaret understands the challenges of managing priorities and maintaining a healthy work-life balance. After experiencing the benefits of surrendering her sense of control and reevaluating her priorities, she felt called to share her insights through writing. Margaret's relatable and down-to-earth approach makes her a valuable resource for career-driven individuals seeking balance and alignment.The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 - Surrendering Control to God, 00:06:12 - Surrendering Control Round Two, 00:09:38 - Following Your Calling, 00:12:31 - Pursuing Your Passion, 00:16:36 - Letting Go of To-Do Lists, 00:13:31 - Margaret's Journey to Becoming an Author, 00:15:03 - Pat Flynn's Similar Story, 00:17:29 - Surrendering the To-Do List, 00:19:26 - Trusting the Process, 00:25:06 - The Importance of Strategic Blocks, 00:26:48 - Prioritizing Your To-Do List, 00:29:13 - The Importance of Planning, 00:31:33 - The Gift of Marriage, 00:33:12 - Don't Wait for Perfect Conditions, 00:34:06 - Closing Thoughts, Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself.Support the showMusic Hopeful Camping Folk | Camping by Alex-Productions | https://youtu.be/aUHdSwhiNVU Music promoted by https://onsound.eu/ Go to BeyondTheRut.com/capsho for your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Click on BeyondTheRut.com/capsho to claim your free 14-day trial and see for yourself. Support the show